Having lots of friends getting married recently and pretty soon this kinda made me think about my friends who are worried about never even finding a boyfriend... most of them I went to school with so we're all in the same row boat... Although I think some of us have different priorities... Okay so starting out with the married few wow right on... hopefully that is who God wants you to be with it's so fairy tale in this stage... I don't want to be a party pooper but what happens when problems arise in the journey, I pray that all of you work through it and have 50 year wedding anniversaries! NO DIVORCES... Okay so there's you guys then there are the ones who probably need to decide to get married or just find someone else... I don't think getting married should be that hard of a decision.. yes think about it... but when you've thought about it and still can't come up with a yes or no answer... there might be a problem! Okay then there are the ones who do have boyfriends but none of them want commitment... WHAT!? why are you dating then?? okay yeah it's nice to have someone to grope lol but seriously dating is to find a husband/wife... so why are you going through the motions if you have no interests in marriage, isn't that unfair to the girl/guy???? and if you are just a lusty ball who wants to wait their time on you?? Sorry but yeah... Then there are them Girls... and Some Guys who are waiting for something so special that it's one boyfriend/Girlfriend that turns into something and marriage! and Future soul mates.. it's nice it's beautiful... lets face it IT COULD happen, but the thing that makes me wonder sometimes are we glorifying this into something that is too huge and it will never happen?? Are we tossing future mates aside still looking out into the horizon waiting for that special someone we created in our heads that could never live up to our image and expectations we've set out for that person??? so I'm just saying no matter if your married, dating, single there are problems.. so don't worry about it, don't wish your life away... :D any ways that's just a thought lol a big thought......
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wow... so do you think that me saying no to the past... 3 guys who have made the effort was a bad desicion then ha ha ha... i guess i'll never know but look at it this way you've made me wonder if i skipped my soul mate... oh no... i need to get married ahhhhh... no just joking... i've still got 4 more years of school and a few more trips to europe... cant get tied down yet... just slap me when i say im lonely okay?
vann you follow God, and he always makes things work out...
it's just mostly my ramblings... lol
I have faith that he'd be "God sent" and real love doesn't need sex, but it's a nice little parting gift :D
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